Long before I became a mom, I had heard other moms talk about how awful diaper rashes could be and how hard they could be to get rid of. I came to the conclusion that as with most things in life, prevention would be much better than the cure. I determined to do everything in my power to absolutely avoid my daughter getting a diaper rash in the first place. All the experts agree that avoiding or curing a diaper rash depends on the combination of several factors such as skin sensitivity, diet, brand of diaper, diaper cream, frequence of changing the diaper and how much time spent with the diaper off. For us it was a long journey to figure out the perfect combination of products and routine to avoid and eliminate diaper rash especially with the added complication of her being in daycare five days a week. This is our story of how we finally won the war against diaper rash.
When she was born, the hospital put her in Pampers Swaddlers diapers, which are pretty darn good diapers. We used these until her belly button healed up and then we switched to the Bum Genius cloth diapers. The great thing about Swaddlers is how soft they are, and they have a wetness indicator line that turns blue when the diaper is wet. This is an awesome feature for new moms who can't always tell when its time to change the diaper.
When we first brought her home from the hospital we began using Earth Mama Angel Baby Bottom Balm
I had heard great things about it being used to prevent and treat rashes and decided to try it as a preventative measure because it is one of the few rash creams that can be used with cloth diapers. Most of the regular rash creams cannot be used with cloth diapers as they create a an invisible build up of residue on the diaper that doesn’t wash off and eventually ruins the diaper. This angel baby bottom balm is supposedly cloth diaper approved and is made from organic vegan ingredients. I ordered a jar of it online and waited eagerly for it to arrive. But I was really confused when I received it in the mail; because it was the tiniest jar ever! I thought maybe it was just a free sample or something? But nope I paid $14.99 plus tax and shipping for a teeny 2oz jar of ointment that easily fits in the palm of my hand. The photo below gives you an idea of the size
I guess I should have paid more attention to the size when I was ordering but I assumed based on the price that it would be decent sized jar, I was wrong.
The things I liked about this ointment;
- Easy to apply
- Gentle organic ingredients
- Great for other uses such as bug bites & burns
- Approved for cloth diapers
- Only a small amount needed each time
However despite all the things I did like about it, I later came to the conclusion that this diaper rash ointment is actually pretty useless. See it seemed to work fine in the beginning because she didn't have a rash. However it didn't do much to prevent a rash and once she actually started to develop a rash this ointment didn't do anything to heal it. In my opinion the best rash cream is one that is able to create a waterproof barrier between the skin and the diaper to keep moisture off the skin to prevent a rash occurring in the first place. The angel baby bottom balm rubs off the skin so easily that it all ends up in the diaper and doesn't stay on the skin to protect it. In addition I don't really believe that this ointment is safe for cloth diapers because my cloth diapers started repelling moisture after using this balm. I went on their website and saw other people had left similar complaints. Considering the price of this product and that fact that it never actually displayed any healing properties, I rate this a D
My daughter was doing great for the first 12 weeks of her life until she started daycare. Her first day of daycare we sent her in with a box of Huggies Snug & Dry diapers. That was my first mistake. At home we were using Bum Genius cloth diapers and Pampers swaddlers. Both those diapers are so much better than Huggies, and it took me exactly one day to figure that out. When I picked my daughter up from daycare and took her home, her bottom was covered in a red bumpy rash and there were strange gel beads stuck to her skin. I was freaked out by this and looked online for more information. I found this on the Huggies website.
So they claim the gel beads are non-toxic and not harmful but my daughters skin told me a different story. I was really surprised by this because so many people use and love Huggies diapers, but I guess every baby has different skin and handles exposure to chemicals differently. I was also very disappointed because I had a closet full of huggies diapers I had received as gifts and now I couldn't use any of them. I later found out that most stores like walmart or target will give you store credit for unopened boxes of diapers.
So anyway I made sure not to use Huggies on her ever again. I did a side by side comparison with a Huggies snug & dry diaper, a Pampers swaddlers diaper and I even compared the Huggies Little Snugglers diaper which is supposed to have the same features as the pampers swaddlers. But it was easy to see that the pampers felt softer and more comfortable than both of the Huggies. I sent in boxes of pampers swaddlers to her daycare and her rash cleared up in a few days. However after a while she started getting a different sort of bumpy rash that would not go away. I was convinced her daycare wasn't changing her every two hours as they claimed, after talking with them about it in as nice a way as possible, I realized what the problem might be. They were using their own generic brand of wipes and not using the Huggies Natural care wipes I was sending in. They seemed to think they were doing me a favor by saving my wipes and using their own wipes, but my daughters poor skin was getting worse and worse. I emphasized the importance of only using her wipes on her in order to keep her skin rash free.
I decided to try stronger rash creams that could permanently get rid of her rash. I tried;
This is a thick white paste that contains 40% zinc oxide. It is advertised to start healing on contact and is available in either a jar or tube. This product is made by my least favorite company Johnson & Johnson, but I still decided to give it a try since this particular product isn't part of the Johnsons baby line that had all the issues. I had a love hate relationship with this product
- It really does seem to make a difference right away if you follow the instructions correctly
- It forms a thick barrier between the baby's skin and the diaper, protecting it from moisture
- It is relatively affordable
- It is really thick and messy to apply, it gets everywhere. seriously.
- It is really hard to clean this off my daughters bottom, I have to wipe really hard to get it off and that in itself irritates the skin even more, making the rash raw and chaffed.
Overall I think its a fairly good rash cream but not for continued use, and it does irritate the skin while you are trying to clean it off. I rate this a C+
Once my daughter's skin started getting irritated by the Desitin, I decided to try some milder options and home remedies. Firstly her pediatrician recommened that we try Vaseline, Lanolin or A+D
This ointment is primarily made of petroleum and lanolin is great at preventing rather than curing diaper rashers. A+D also has a zinc version of this, but neither of them did much for my daughter. I rate this B-
I decided to try the 100% Lansinoh lanolin that I blogged about previously, I already had tubes of it at home so I had nothing to lose.
I can honestly say it is one of the best "home remedies" especially in terms of creating a waterproof barrier. Aside from the fact that its a bit pricey I really saw improvement using this. I rate this A+
My mother mentioned to me that when I was a child she had used Milk of magnesia to get rid of diaper rashes, so I decided to give it a try.
It definitely does help calm an angry rash but you have to wait for it to dry completely before putting the diaper on and that takes a while. I would often put vaseline over it to form a thicker barrier. I realized later on that many moms make their own diaper cream using milk of magnesia as one of the key ingredients, I guess moms really do know best! I rate this B-
I also saw online that seating the baby in a baking soda bath helps soothe and heal a diaper rash, so I tried this too. It definitely did help a bit but wasn't a true cure. I also read online the importance of using a cloth wipe or wet wash cloth to cleanse the skin after a diaper change , so I started doing this too. The reason for this is that the wipes themselves are full of chemicals and can cause or aggravate a diaper rash too. Using a wet wash cloth to cleanse the diaper area helps remove the chemical residue left behind by the wipes.
I also tried the organic coconut oil that I was already using it in her hair. I think it does an okay job of healing minor skin issues from head to toe, but it's not all that effective at clearing up a serious diaper rash.
As you can imagine, by this point I felt like I had tried everything under the sun and yet the rash kept coming back. So I had no other choice but to keep trying and praying I would figure it out. I tried Triple Paste medicated ointment. It is one of the more expensive options available in the store and is supposed to be one of the best.
In our case it didn't work at all, each time I tried it, it made her rash immediately ten times worse. It was frustrating to say the least, that I would buy and try all these creams that worked well for other moms but would still have no luck. I was so frustrated and convinced that the daycare was doing something wrong to make her rash worse. I started visiting other daycares to see if I could find some place better for her and I will post about that in more detail later. In the mean time her doctor gave us a prescription for a stronger cream that eliminated the rash completely, only for it to return in a few weeks. We also tried Boudreaux's butt paste which was also useless for us. I also decided to try the California Baby Diaper Area Wash. I decided to try this since I really loved the California Baby hair products. This can be sprayed directly on the skin or on a wash cloth to cleanse the diaper area. The logic behind this spray is that it is supposed to clean the skin better than a regular disposable wipe can and is less irritating to sensitive skin. To be honest I was never able to tell if this was making her rash any better or worse, I couldn't even really rate this so I threw it into my reject pile.
Finally, whilst at yet another doctors appointment, her pediatrician was looking at the rash as I was rattling off a big list of everything that had so far failed to make it better and she suggested yet again that we try to keep her diaper free as much as possible... I had always previously ignored this suggestion because I felt it was very impractical to just leave her crawling around without a diaper, and it was definitely not an option at the daycare where she spends most of the day. However she also mentioned that several of her patients had luck with using Triple Paste AF as a last resort but it was super important to ensure the baby's skin was 100% dry because applying this cream.
It stunned me to realize that something as simple as excess moisture on her skin could cause such an awful and stubborn rash, but thank God for Triple Paste AF that finally eliminated her rash. Now I no longer rush through diaper changes, I leave her diaper off as long as it takes for her to be really 100% dry before using vaseline to keep the moisture off her skin. What a journey!